As I've mentioned on my previous post, some of my girlfriends had been crying over some stupid guys these past few days

. No, Don't get me wrong, I do not blame anyone for being in love because I've been in love too. but I know that stupidity and being miserable is a choice.

#1: Someone told me about his feelings for a girl and asked my opinion about it, if it's already LOVE or just INFATUATION. I told him that I cannot answer his question dahil siya lang makakaalam nun, but as what I see, It's just a strong attraction and the girl's feeling is not reciprocal.

He asked my `why?` what's the difference between the two` then I told him.

`nasasaktan kang makita siyang may kasamang iba kasi nasasaktan ang pride mo na hindi ikaw ang kasama niya, na bakit pinagpalit mo sya sa mas gwapo sayo` he answered `eh bakit tuwing magkasama kami parang ok naman, saka last week lang ok kami saka parang malapit na niya ko sagutin` I said `yun na nga eh, gusto ko niya kahapon pero hindi na ngayon, kasi nagsawa na siya. SO IT IS NOT LOVE`

#2: last TUESDAY, we were chatting outside when one of my girlfriends went out and cried, so I was worried, we asked her why and she didn't answer.

Pero nung kaming dalawa na lang, she told me that she cried because her CRUSH confessed on her Last Saturday and she don't know what to do and what to feel kasi iba yung pinapakita ni guy. I just told her to weigh everything first, weigh her feeling towards the guy and know her priorities before deciding. I just wish everything would be okay.

#3: The same day, another girlfriend of mine cried. I asked her why and she said it's about her suitor.

She told her suitor to stop courting because she's not allowed to have a boyfriend yet and she doesn't want her KUYA to talk with this guy and stop him from courting. kasi mas masakit un

Syempre masyado siya mabait,siya na nagsabi dun sa guy but unfortunately the guy can't understand and she felt guilty because of it. May tendency daw kasi yun na mag suicide :| I just told her to stop feeling guilty because she just did what she has to do.

#4: I saw Lorielle (my ex-close friend) crying this morning dahil nagbreak NA NAMAN sila ng boyfriend niya. I don't know, I am already irritated with her actions.

Kasi this is NOT THE FIRST TIME, HINDI PA RIN SIYA NATATAUHAN and SHE IS PATHETIC! This is not her first break up and she's still not tired of eveything, mas pagod na ata kami intindihin siya.

Gill and I talked after asking her what happened and we had the same opinion

This is not her first boyfriend nor breakup and everytime she breaks up with a guy, ALL THE BLAME will be on the guy's shoulder, para bang she really really really makes herself so kawawa to everyone's eyes so everybody would blame the guy.

The first time I saw her cry over I boy, naawa ako sa kanya but this time. Its ALL SHAME and BLAME.

I can't blame the guy anymore because I can see what's happening and she CANNOT CONTROL HERSELF!

There's nothing wrong with being in love but make sure to reserve something for yourself as a woman, Ikaw ba, iiyak ka sa harap ng madaming tao dahil sa isang lalakeng ilang beses ka ng nasaktan? why can't she even have self-preservation? hindi ka na maawa dahil hindi naman yun yung unang beses, you would wonder why she still go on with that? I don't blame her for being in love pero MAAWA naman siya sa sarili niya! We always give advice but she won't listen. She seemed so LOST, kahit nag lelesson kami puro LALAKE YUNG PINAGUUSAPAN NILA. And can't she put first things first? I don't know. I'm just mad because she's my friend, at least became my friend. And I don't know what's happening to her anymore, pati pagaaral napabayaan na niya :(

There are no rules for love, but you should know what's right and wrong.

As I've mentioned on my previous post, some of my girlfriends had been crying over some stupid guys these past few days

. No, Don't get me wrong, I do not blame anyone for being in love because I've been in love too. but I know that stupidity and being miserable is a choice.

#1: Someone told me about his feelings for a girl and asked my opinion about it, if it's already LOVE or just INFATUATION. I told him that I cannot answer his question dahil siya lang makakaalam nun, but as what I see, It's just a strong attraction and the girl's feeling is not reciprocal.

He asked my `why?` what's the difference between the two` then I told him.

`nasasaktan kang makita siyang may kasamang iba kasi nasasaktan ang pride mo na hindi ikaw ang kasama niya, na bakit pinagpalit mo sya sa mas gwapo sayo` he answered `eh bakit tuwing magkasama kami parang ok naman, saka last week lang ok kami saka parang malapit na niya ko sagutin` I said `yun na nga eh, gusto ko niya kahapon pero hindi na ngayon, kasi nagsawa na siya. SO IT IS NOT LOVE`

#2: last TUESDAY, we were chatting outside when one of my girlfriends went out and cried, so I was worried, we asked her why and she didn't answer.

Pero nung kaming dalawa na lang, she told me that she cried because her CRUSH confessed on her Last Saturday and she don't know what to do and what to feel kasi iba yung pinapakita ni guy. I just told her to weigh everything first, weigh her feeling towards the guy and know her priorities before deciding. I just wish everything would be okay.

#3: The same day, another girlfriend of mine cried. I asked her why and she said it's about her suitor.

She told her suitor to stop courting because she's not allowed to have a boyfriend yet and she doesn't want her KUYA to talk with this guy and stop him from courting. kasi mas masakit un

Syempre masyado siya mabait,siya na nagsabi dun sa guy but unfortunately the guy can't understand and she felt guilty because of it. May tendency daw kasi yun na mag suicide :| I just told her to stop feeling guilty because she just did what she has to do.

#4: I saw Lorielle (my ex-close friend) crying this morning dahil nagbreak NA NAMAN sila ng boyfriend niya. I don't know, I am already irritated with her actions.

Kasi this is NOT THE FIRST TIME, HINDI PA RIN SIYA NATATAUHAN and SHE IS PATHETIC! This is not her first break up and she's still not tired of eveything, mas pagod na ata kami intindihin siya.

Gill and I talked after asking her what happened and we had the same opinion

This is not her first boyfriend nor breakup and everytime she breaks up with a guy, ALL THE BLAME will be on the guy's shoulder, para bang she really really really makes herself so kawawa to everyone's eyes so everybody would blame the guy.

The first time I saw her cry over I boy, naawa ako sa kanya but this time. Its ALL SHAME and BLAME.

I can't blame the guy anymore because I can see what's happening and she CANNOT CONTROL HERSELF!

There's nothing wrong with being in love but make sure to reserve something for yourself as a woman, Ikaw ba, iiyak ka sa harap ng madaming tao dahil sa isang lalakeng ilang beses ka ng nasaktan? why can't she even have self-preservation? hindi ka na maawa dahil hindi naman yun yung unang beses, you would wonder why she still go on with that? I don't blame her for being in love pero MAAWA naman siya sa sarili niya! We always give advice but she won't listen. She seemed so LOST, kahit nag lelesson kami puro LALAKE YUNG PINAGUUSAPAN NILA. And can't she put first things first? I don't know. I'm just mad because she's my friend, at least became my friend. And I don't know what's happening to her anymore, pati pagaaral napabayaan na niya :(

There are no rules for love, but you should know what's right and wrong.